Monday 30 September 2013

I am a 28-year-old man. I am straight, but out of curiosity I indulged in oral pleasure with a male friend. We stroked each other until we ejaculated on each others penises. After that,I got myself tested for HIV every two months for the last six and all the tests were negative. What are the chances of getting HIV if I indulge in oral sex with men?



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I am 34 years old. I am having an affair with my wife's sister. I have oral sex with both of them. Is there any harm in drinking their vaginal fluids?



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My girlfriend and I are both 18 years old and we have been getting sexually intimate for the last one month. She says that when I perform oral sex on her, she reaches an orgasm in about 2-3 minutes. She gets about 5-6 orgasms in the next 20 minutes. I’ve read online that girls achieve orgasms in 10-15 minutes so I was wondering why my girlfriend reaches an orgasm so early. Is it possible that she is faking it?



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I am a 25-year-old man and my wife is 23 years old. We have been married for two years. We live separately because of my work. I am going to meet her after a gap of eight months. We are not planning to have a child for another four years but neither of us enjoys sex with a condom. I don’t feel any sensation and lose my erection. She doesn’t feel anything either. What other contraception can we use? She used to be on oral contraceptives but the gynaecologist advised against it.



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I am a 20-year-old man. I recently had a hernia operation. The stitches were removed a few days ago. Is it safe to start masturbating? Also the size of my penis seems to have increased. Though I am happy about it, I am curious to know whether it is due to the operation.



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I am 29 years old and my pubic hair is turning grey. What does this mean? Will I stop getting erections?



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While kissing, my boyfriend fondles my breasts. Will this increase my breast size? Also,when we kiss, it goes on for almost two hours. I have heard that too much kissing causes pimples on the face. Is it true?



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I am a 32-year-old married man. Since I was 14 years old,I have had the habit of wearing womens clothes. My wife,too,supports me. I enjoy having sex with my wife only after cross-dressing. Lately, my desire to crossdress is growing. Sometimes,I wear a bra inside my shirt the entire day. I love going to pubs and dark places when I am cross-dressed. I am confused. Am I doing something wrong Should I continue with this?



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I am a 25-year-old woman. The foreplay act with my partner lasts for more than 10 minutes. But whenever my partner tries to penetrate me I fear pain, even if he tries different positions. Only after a lot of attempts do we succeed. How can I overcome this fear?



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I am a 28-year-old man. I have been married for five months. I have a habit of hiding and watching my wife when she is bathing. I masturbate while watching her. She does not know about it. Is it a good habit?



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I am a 19-year-old man and I enjoy licking my girlfriend’s bottom. I also like it when she sucks my nipples. Is this normal?



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Three years ago a friend asked me to join him for a drink. We drank till 3.30 am after which we went to a red light area where we met two sex workers. I had sex with both of them. At that time I didn’t bother to get a medical check-up done. Recently, however, I have begun feeling very weak. It is affecting my social life. Sometimes I think I am very sick. I fear that I may have contracted AIDS. Is there a solution?



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Is it safe to have sex with someone who is infected with tuberculosis? What precautions should be taken?



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I am 28 years old and my wife is 25. We have been married for a year now, but she isn’t interested in sex or even having a baby. I have a high sex drive and can go on for half an hour. Despite this, she isn’t interested. Of late, a friend who was keen on me before I got married has shown interest in making love with me (she probably wants to have a baby, too), due to which I find myself more inclined towards her than my wife. But I love my pretty wife. Please help me.



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For the last four days, I have been experiencing a burning sensation on the tip of my penis. It has become red and hurts when I pass urine. What should I do? Please help.



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Last August, I had sex with a prostitute in Dubai. During intercourse, the condom broke and I ejaculated inside her. However, I realised this too late. Testing for AIDS is mandatory in the UAE so I was carefree as I thought that she would not be infected. However, I now realise that it’s a serious matter and need some doubts clarified. a) Is there a window period within which AIDS can be detected or can one take a test for it any time? b) If I get myself tested now, can I expect a proper result, even though it’s been eight months since the incident? c) What test should I take? I am very scared and I don’t want to ruin my life.



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I have small skin-coloured eruptions on my penis. While they aren’t filled with pus and don’t hurt, they erupt in clusters. I have had them for around two years. I also have small viral warts under my eye. Could it be due to the same infection?



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The opening of my foreskin is small.I am unable to pull it back when the penis is erect. When I try it hurts a lot. How much will undergoing circumcision cost Post operation, how long will I have to wait to hit the gym. It even hurts when I try to pull back the foreskin and touch the inner skin. How long will it take for this sensitivity to disappear?



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I have been experiencing a burning sensation at the tip of my penis.The tip has turned red and hurts when I pass urine.Is there a cream that can help?



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Sunday 29 September 2013

I am a 21-year-old man. For the past three days,I have been experiencing pain in my testicles, especially on the right side. I am unable to sleep properly. I workout at the gym regularly and always wear a tight supporter. Could this be causing the pain?



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I am 23 years old. I have an developed itchy rash on the head of my penis. I am too embarrassed to visit a doctor, is there a cream I can use?



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I am a 38-year-old man and have been married for the past nine years. Of late, I have started experiencing pain in my right testicle and lower abdomen. The pain starts when I withhold my sexual urge or achieve erection but don’t have sex or masturbate. This used to happen earlier too. But of late, the pain has become severe and the frequency has increased. Is this normal? Do I need to see a doctor?



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I am 29 years old and my husband is 30. We have been married for two and a half years. However, we haven’t been successful with sex yet. Whenever he tries to penetrate me, I find it painful. We tried finger penetration, after 20 minutes of applying Lox 2% jelly. But even when he tries inserting two fingers, it hurts. The frequency of our sexual activity is very low — once or twice a month. What can we do?



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I am 17 years old. I have been regularly having sex with my 22-year-old boyfriend for the past one year. Recently, my period got delayed by a week and now, I have missed it for this month. Please tell me why this is happening.



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Would weight loss decrease the size of the breasts? Also, is it safe to use an electrical shaver to get rid of hair on breasts?



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I am a 26-year-old man. Sometimes I experience a slight pain in my left testicle when I am sitting, walking, or in the midst of any activity. It lasts for a short while and then disappears. Does this mean I have a problem?



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Saturday 28 September 2013

I am a 26-year-old woman. I have been married for the past six years. I have completely lost my sex drive after conceiving a child three years ago. It is affecting my marriage. Please help.



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I am 20 years old. My testicles are abnormally small. Am I being paranoid or is this a matter of concern?



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I am a 27-year-old man. I got married four months ago. My wife and I love each other and enjoy sex and foreplay. But I fear that my penis is small and I ejaculate very early. Also, the second time around, I take time to get an erection. When I ejaculate early, my wife gets nervous and upset with me. Please suggest a tablet or exercise to solve my problem.



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I am a 21-year-old male. Do exercises such as Jelq and Kegel help increase the length of the penis in an adult?



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I am a 32-year-old married man.I got married last year. Nowadays,I find that my penis doesn't become as hard as before. I also feel pain in the penis after intercourse. I consume tobacco thrice a day and have been doing so for a long time.



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Is it possible for a girl to get pregnant if she touches a penis and then feels herself?



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I am 58-years-old. I have been suffering from blood pressure and minor heart problem since 1986. I take Tenruc-50 for my BP.For the past seven years,I have been suffering from erectile dysfunction. I experience only 25-30 per cent erection,which increases to 50 per cent after taking a Viagra 100 mg pill, but I ejaculate within three seconds. I take the pill once a week. I have done a sixweek course of Viogomax Forte,have tried Tentex Royal and Cox 5% cream and even consulted a doctor. Nothing has helped. I dont smoke or drink. My wife is 48 years old. Even after engaging in 25-30 minutes of foreplay,I cannot satisfy her. Please prescribe a medicine that will help.



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I am a 25-year-old man and I have been having sex with my partner for four years. I feel that the length of my penis has decreased and there’s very little sperm in my ejaculate. My girlfriend is dissatisfied. How can I get a stronger penis?



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I am 20 years old. Recently, I had unprotected sex with a 40-year-old woman. Will this cause any problem in future? Will she get pregnant? Can I continue to have sex with her?



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I am a 32-year-old man. I have been masturbating since I was a teenager. I have noticed that my testicles hang loose at all times, except in the morning. My libido has also gone down over the years. Is this because of the loose testicles?



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Friday 27 September 2013

I am a 26-year-old man and am getting married to a 22-year-old woman. I don’t know how to communicate my desires to her, as she is very childish. Also, what is the ideal age for a woman to conceive a child?



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I am a 24-year-old unmarried woman. I experience severe pain in my breasts and it is hard to bear most of the time. I consulted a gynaecologist who said there was no problem and prescribed a course of Combiflam tablets,which didnt help. Will this problem affect my sex life after marriage?



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I am a 28-year-old man. For many years,I used to be a chain smoker and eat at irregular times because of my workload. Then last year,I started suffering from erectile dysfunction. I also think my penis has shrunk. Is this condition curable?



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I am a 24-year-old man.Though I have never had sex,I masturbate regularly.I also don't suffer from any health problem. However,for the last six months,I have been noticing granules around the ring of my penis. How do I get rid of them?



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I am a 28-year-old woman and my husband is 30. We have been married for four and a half years. He does not have a blood sugar problem, but his cholesterol level is on the higher side. He is currently taking medication for a psychiatric problem. My periods are regular. Since both of us are working, we get intimate only on weekends. We have been trying to have intercourse, but have failed. We visited a sexologist who advised us to do the Penile-Doppler Scan, which showed that my husband has Erectile Dysfunction. Our doctor says he’ll give us the secular sex therapy (separating us from family, friends and work) for a week. He promised that this would help us have intercourse. Is this the right treatment?



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I am a 26-year-old married woman. For the last one week, my vagina has not been secreting lubricating fluid during intercourse, despite foreplay. This has never happened before. How can I fix this?



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My foreskin naturally folds near the glans. I hear this is not the case in most men. Can this harm my sex life?



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I got married recently. My wife’s vaginal opening is so narrow that I can barely insert two fingers. I am unable to penetrate her, which is worrying me.



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My penis measures only three to four inches, which is why I have never had sex with anyone. I searched online about penis enlargement processes and tried a few. They didn’t help. Can something be done to enlarge my penis without risking impotency? I am planning to get married soon. Please help.



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I am 32 years old. I got married nine months ago. I underwent a semen analysis test and found that my sperm count is 9.8 million per ml. Is this sufficient to father a child? What medicines could I take to improve the count?



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I am a 26-year-old man and like watching gay porn. I feel like getting physical with smart looking men. But I don’t want to be homosexual. If given a choice for sex between a man or women, I’d choose the latter. Then, why do I get aroused by looking at shirtless men? How do I rid myself of homosexual desires?



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Thursday 26 September 2013

I am 27 years old. My penis has had a curvature since childhood. It is about seven inches long and bends 90 degrees towards the left. The straight portion is only about an inch long. As the weight is not balanced, this causes me pain. Even while passing urine, I need to be careful that the flow is not obstructed. I am ready to lose the length so long as I can have a straight penis. What should I do?



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I am a 45-year-old man and have a well-built, healthy body. I am 510 and my penis measures seven inches. I have been married for 23 years. My wife and I enjoy good sex. I travel nearly 60 km every day by bus .Six months ago, while I was in the bus, a co-passenger started stroking my penis with his hand. I felt uncomfortable and got off the bus. The following day, I had a similar experience with another man, but this time I enjoyed his touch. After that, I have frequently enjoyed such encounters. However, I haven’t ejaculated on any occasion. Now, I am unable to have sex with my wife and do not get a good erection. If someone touches me in the bus, I get aroused but not at home. Why is this happening I am very disturbed?



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I have a one-and-a-halfyear-old son. I wanted to know whether diapers affect the growth of the penis. We make him wear one at night and when we are out.



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I am a 37-year-old married man and have one child. I wear cotton underwear to keep my testicles in place. At home, I wear shorts minus the underwear. Because of this my testicles hang loose. Will it affect my sex life?



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I am a 21-year-old woman and have large breasts. I feel ashamed before my friends. I often find men staring at my chest. My parents are searching for a groom for me. I am worried that after the wedding and post pregnancy, my breast size will increase. What should I do? Is there any way to reduce my breast size?



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I am a 58-year-old married man. Six months ago my prostate gland was surgically removed due to urological problems. Since then I have not been able to ejaculate. I have been suffering from Erectile Dysfunction (ED) for the last one month. Could this be a consequence of prostate removal? The only medicine I take regularly is Concor-5 for BP control. Could you tell me what I could do to cure the ED.



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My wife and I have sex three times a week. We are happy with our sex life. But my wife wants to have sex more frequently than me. We only last for about 10 to 15 minutes. Is there a way to sustain sex for 30 minutes or more?



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I am a married man. I have been suffering from recurring genital herpes for the past nine years. The problem arises in every three to four months and I have to take a fiveday course of medication. During this time, I apply Ocuvir 5 ointment on my penis and don’t indulge in any sexual activity. We want to have children. What do I do?



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Wednesday 25 September 2013

I am a 30-year-old married man. To delay my ejaculation, I apply Xylocaine 2% gel on my penis before intercourse. The gel lessens the sensitivity of my penis and I can enjoy sex for a longer period. Can the frequent use of this gel have any side effects? Please advise.



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I am a 37-year-old widow. I am not interested in marrying again. I don’t have a boyfriend and I pleasure myself three times a week. But I am not totally satisfied. One of my friends suggested that I should buy a sex toy. Is it the right thing to do?



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I am a 33-year-old married man. Recently, an African-American woman moved into a neighbouring flat. I helped her settle in and even arranged a cook for her. Over time, we got intimate and had sex when my wife was away on an official tour. She has a curvaceous behind and huge breasts. Now, I do not enjoy sex with my wife as much as I did with my neighbour. What do I do?



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I am 45 years old. For the last six months, I have been experiencing a pain in my head when I have sex with my wife, and even while masturbating. Why is this so?



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I am a 19-year-old man suffering from gynecomastia. I am not overweight, but have puffy nipples. It’s a little embarrassing to talk to my parents about it. Could you suggest good hospitals in Mumbai where I can get a surgery done? Also, how much would it cost?



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Last week, I noticed a small round boil on the underside of my penis. It looked like a grain of dal. I pressed it hard and a brown liquid oozed out. Am I alright?


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I have been happily married for three years. A few days ago, I was fidgeting with my brother-in-law’s phone and stumbled on a few erotic pictures of my wife. The pictures were sent to him by her. I’ve been shocked since. What do I do?



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I am a 35-year-old married man. I love my wife. A few days ago, I had sex with two sex workers using two condoms each. Because of the thick barrier, intercourse wasn’t pleasurable.Hence I withdrew and asked them to give me a hand job. The condoms were intact and did not tear. But it was the biggest mistake of my life. I got worried that I might have contracted STDs or HIV. I consulted a physician who advised me to undergo an HIV early detector test. The test was done on January 25 and the results were negative.I have read about a window period that makes detecting the infection difficult. I am scared. I have a good wife and family. I pray God forgives me.


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I am 49 years old. For the past 20 years, I have been suffering from premature ejaculation. What should I do?



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Recently, I saw my 13-year-old daughter masturbate. Is it the right age for her to do so? Probably she is only playing with water while bathing, but I am worried. Should I discuss this with her?



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I am a 20-year-old man. For the past eight months, I have been noticing that whenever I am with my girlfriend, I don’t get strong erections. Sometimes, my penis expands but remains flaccid. The result is the same when I try to masturbate. Also, of late, I have not been experiencing morning erections. Is this because I used to masturbate four times a week? I think all of this adds up to something, but I can’t figure what it is. I feel like a 50-year-old man.



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Tuesday 24 September 2013

I am a 22-year-old virgin. My problem is that the day after I masturbate, I feel morose. I am unable to do my daily tasks, which demand a lot of attention. Could I be suffering from sexual exhaustion? Please help.


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I am a 48-year-old man. Of late, I don’t get an erection in the morning but I enjoy having sex with my wife. Is it necessary to get an erection every morning?


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I am 35 years old and my wife is 33. We have been married for a year but till date we haven’t had intercourse. I orgasm prematurely and at times, I don’t get good erection. We consulted a local doctor (MD). He examined us both and concluded that we are normal, except that my wife’s vagina is tighter than usual and my erections aren’t strong enough. He advised us to have more sex to overcome this. But of late, I am losing my desire due to sheer fear of repeated failure as it frustrates us both. This is causing us a lot of unhappiness. We wish to start our family. Please help.



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I am 30 years old and am getting married this month. I am HbsAg +ve. The doctor says that it is in the carrier/chronic state. Is it possible to prevent my wife from getting infected?



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I am 35-year-old woman. I am having an affair with a 50-year-old man and we have been sexually intimate for the last one year. He is very fit and healthy, physically and mentally. Earlier, he would get a good erection, but this hasn’t been the case for the last one month. A month ago, he went on a diet. He has been suffering from Hepatitis B and recently, the doctor suggested he take Tenohep or Tentide tablets. I read on the Internet that the tablet is for HIV-1 infection. Is he suffering from HIV or does the medicine have other usages too? Please clarify.



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Monday 23 September 2013

I am a 35-year-old man. My left testicle sits lower than my right one. The difference is huge. It is virtually hanging free. When I touch it, I feel little or no sensation. It is so loose that I can even rotate it clockwise and anticlockwise. Also, when I pinch the right side of the penis or the veins, I feel little or no sensation. The left testicle hangs naturally lower than the right.



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My friend, who is 23 years old, is bisexual. Recently, he had anal sex with a boy without using a condom. Now, he has developed black spots on his penis. There’s a spot on his testicle too. Has he contracted HIV?



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I am a 24-year-old man. I smoke ten cigarettes a day. I do not get an erection these days. So I have started popping Viagra, which is helping me. Should I continue taking it? Are there any longterm side effects to it?



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I am a 65-year-old man and have been suffering from diabetes for the last 15 years. I suffer from erectile dysfunction and am unable to have intercourse. However, I like to masturbate. My penis is nine inches long when erect and it attains this length during masturbation. What do I do?



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I feel the urge to urinate after passing stool. This urge remains for a few hours. While passing stool, only little urine passes along. The remaining balance gets cleared only after a few attempts. Consequently, I suffer from a low sex drive. What’s the problem?


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I am a 26-year-old unmarried man. I have the habit of sleeping naked. I even wear pants without wearing an underwear. I feel good doing this. Is this habit okay or should I stop it?


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I am a 51-year-old diabetic. Whenever I try to have sex, I am not happy with the size of my penis which is always flaccid. It leaves me low around my partner. Since implants that can be bent and made erect whenever required, are now available, I wish to know more about them. Will my penis size increase? Can it cause impotency? Is it safe? Also, who is the best surgeon to approach?



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I am 27 years old and have a fair complexion. I am a bit on the heavier side but not exactly fat. When I was 21, I visited my native place with my family, and accidentally spotted bathers in the nude while I was changing to take a dip in the river. Since then, I like to get naked in public. In fact, when I am alone at home, I am usually in the buff. But I don’t like to have sex. I get aroused when people see me naked. For the same reason, I went to Goa with my closest friends and went skinny dipping in front of strangers. I get naked whenever and wherever it’s possible. How can I rid myself of this habit?



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